Happy 4th of July to all of you who celebrate!
As we enter the lazy days of summer, it can be a great time to re-evaluate, to re-negotiate, to re-discover what you need, what you want, what your goals are for the upcoming season, what you want to achieve through the summer.
So what does a singer NEED in order to create an environment to learn, to develop & to succeed in their development?
Talent aside, there are many other things that can be more tangible or realized.
Talent is nothing without development. Potential sucks if it's not developed.
What do you need?
A burning desire to sing. Not a plan B or C; not an excuse; not a "yeah, but"; Just a simple burning desire to sing because that it was gives you a sense of yourself like no other.
You need to WANT to sing. You need to WANT to learn that role, that song, that aria. You cannot WAIT to throw yourself into the learning process because to sing is to be alive.
A capacity for major doses of reality. The DESIRE is fueled by this. You have to know what you are capable of doing and why; and what you are not ready to do, may never do, and why not.
Do you know what it will take to pursue a career? Are you ready to commit to that? What are you ready and willing and able to commit to? What can you glean from that commitment?
Knowledge is power, and power is knowing. The singer must have both and recognize that the balance of the two is constantly in flux.
AWARENESS is key. Where am I? What can I do? What am I willing to do? How do I make that work to achieve my goals? Are my goals realistic to my talent, my desire, my tenacity, my commitment? If not, how do my goals shift in order to make my choices more realistic?
What are my priorities? Do they line up with what I want or say I want or do they reveal something more important that I need to pursue or acknowledge?
Are you aware of your own psychology? Are you clear what it represents?
Are you aware of your emotional and mental strengths, and even more importantly, your weaknesses? Do you know how to develop your sense of self awareness?
Do you acknowledge self-doubt? Self-sabotage?
Do you recognize what you need to do to move through it?
Are you willing to take responsibility for your emotional life in order to be healthy enough to explore a professional life as a singer? What are you doing to achieve that goal?
Find a mentor. Find that person that is willing to invest in you and challenge you. A mentor will hold up a mirror to give you permission to see what needs to be seen. They will help you continue to ask the questions in order to discover some answers, and probably some more questions. They are not there to enable, to tell you what you want to hear, but rather, to encourage, and create an environment safe enough to hear what you NEED to hear and help you find ways to DO something about it.
I think mentoring is like reality training in a safe environment.
As singers, as human beings, we need this desperately.
What else do you need?
A solid, unrelenting work ethic.
A focused consistency.
An unapologetic self-discipline.
The ability to laugh at yourself but always take the work seriously.
The ability to forgive yourself.
The emotional and psychological fortitude to say "no".
The emotional and psychological fortitude to ask "why".
The self-discipline to take a day off and not feel guilty.
The self-discipline to get back to work, even when the obstacles take your breath away.
The desire and focus to always follow through. ALWAYS.
So, what are you working on? What do you need? What are you willing to do to acknowledge it, and develop it and find more of it?
Nothing is promised, but you have RIGHT NOW to make some choices that will allow you to find your "next".
Susan Eichhorn Young covers all things voice—strong and sophisticated singing and speaking.
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